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Friday, March 4, 2011

Why Men Lose Interest in Women..


BY: OLIVIA CAVANAUGH --This article represents Ms Cavanaugh's opinions -- You be the judge.

Why men lose interest in women is a question that continues to put the female population in search of  answers. Since men wouldn't readily offer reasons as to why, it's up to us to decipher and change, if we can.

Men will always chase after women for they were built and wired that way. No amount of rejection can ever stop them from pursuing the female population. So then why, oh, why do they still suddenly lose interest? It is simply because the attraction wasn't  strong enough for him.
Men may initially find a woman sexy, smart and personable. These qualities, without any doubt, would catch a man's fancy. But why in so many cases do these fall short? Let us look at some reasons that lead us to answer why men lose interest in women.

To be clingy and obsessive is an emotional issue in women that instantly repels men. He hasn't even fully warmed up to you; wouldn't give leaving you a second thought. There's nothing wrong with wanting to be with your man most of the time but it's just plain obsessive when you also prevent him from having quality time outside your relationship. Don't you think it is also selfish? You have issues to resolve within yourself  before you can truly keep a man.
You were your own person even before you had a man in your life. Find activities that you used to enjoy doing while you were still single and find time to still engage in them. Be interested in your guy's hobbies and past times, who knows? Both of you can encourage each other to even do better.

Once you have become predictable and you don't bring anything new to the relationship, don't be surprised if you begin asking why men lose interest in women. A child or any grown person would get bored if you keep on repeating the same routine over and over again. Sprinkle variety in your schedule and dates, surprise him whenever you can. Cook something simple for him even if you can't cook to save your life. Spice it up a bit and for sure his interest in you won't dwindle a bit. These suggestions would inspire him to do the same for you. You don't have to go overboard with your ideas. Simple gestures mean more when a lot of thought and love has been put into it, as cheesy as that may sound.
This may strike some women as trivial but these same issues can literally spell the difference between keeping your man and losing him.
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 Okay, but if it turns out to be tiring, stressful or just hard work to keep him interested, maybe you have the wrong guy. Why don't you start out with someone more suited to you? Find someone who likes you as you are, someone you can relax and be yourself with.  A man who is interested in the same things as you. A guy who has the same goals and of course, someone who has the same commitment to the relationship as you do.  When you have someone like that in your life, those little spontaneous gestures and acts of generosity come quite naturally. Should it be hard work to keep someone interested? I would question if he is worth the effort.

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