Dear Maxy ,
I am supposed to speak at my graduation and don't know where to start . I have written down a speech with various ideas, but I am nervous about them being in a jumble and about my speech not having an impact . I am not worried about messing up because people will forget about it in a few weeks ---but I am not sure I want people to forget about the speech! I want it to have an important enough impact for them to remember it , but I am not particularly philosophical or profound . I also want it to be light enough for people to laugh . Where do I start ?
Stage Fright
Dear Stage Fright,
Think about the big message you want to share with your class . What stands out for you as emblematic of the class ? What are your class strengths ? Do your best to remember funny stories and moving moments that you can use to reflect on your time together . Write an outline for your speech just as you used to do in English class . Build out your thoughts in an organized manner . Sprinkle in humor throughout while maintaining the tenor of the core theme . As you write your speech , stick to your outline . Then read it out loud a few times to see if it works as a spoken piece . Ask someone you trust to listen to you to help you edit and refine .
Maxy
Dear Maxy ,
My wife and I received many gift cards to restaurants as wedding presents last year . We haven't used them because we are concerned about etiquette.
When we use one of the cards, do we need to invite the person that gave it to us to join us at the restaurant ? If so, do we need to cover the cost of their meal ? We don't want to be rude .
Newlyweds
Dear Newlyweds ,
You would not invite the gift-giver to join you everytime you use a place setting or your new mixer, would you ? The gift cards are the same . We do recommend , however, that you check to be certain the cards haven't expired .
Maxy
Dear Maxy,
I live in New York City and I am sure you know that rent is crazy expensive; Therefore , I have a roommate to help out . She was a friend of mine prior to becoming my roommate . It seems that living with her is a lot more difficult than just being friends . She is always trying to outdo everything I do as if there is some competition . If I say that I want a certain bag or if I am dating a great guy, she always try to one-up me. I don't know how to address the issue without sounding harsh or mean .
Mocked
Dear Mocked ,
It is heart-to-heart time. Sit down with your roommate and tell her you want to talk about something that makes you feel uncomfortable . Point out that now that you live together you have noticed that she likes to copy everything you do . Give her examples, such as the bag or even the date . Suggest to her that if your relationship is going to work, you both need your space . That includes space to express your individuality without feeling that your roommate is going to steal your style or your friends .
Maxy
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