After suffering the death of his father and a long hospital stay, 14-year-old Eric Ekis entered Franklin Community High School School standing 6'4" and weighing 510 pounds. His size made him a target for bullies and isolated him, socially and mentally, from his peers.
When teacher Don Wettrick approached Ekis about exercising together, the embarrassed teen turned him down. So Wettrick asked a second time, a few days later. Eric turned him down again. At the end of September, Wettrick approached Ekis a third time, but this time, he didn't come to Ekis with a mission. Instead, he just asked the boy if anything was wrong.
The answer: His grief had turned to depression. Ever since his father's death, he'd given up. He wanted help, but didn't know how to ask.
So Wettrick went to work. With the help of popular senior Kevin Stahl, who takes his independent study Innovations class, the teacher organized an effort to help Eric get healthy. They started simple, with a light walking regimen, and then threw in more intense activities like yoga and basketball.
The project was more successful than they intended. Inspired by Eric, other students joined him in his efforts. The kid who used to sit by himself in the back of the classroom is now the leader of a gang of walkers who take laps around the school. Other students are focusing on eating better lunches in the cafeteria, and the school has plans to bring in a nutritionist to help them make healthier choices.
"This has almost been more an anti-bullying campaign," Wettrick told Today. "If more students wanted to help, as opposed to point and laugh, [it] can lead to great bonds and friendship."
Eric and Kevin now record a video blog marking their progress. While losing weight is one of the goals, they're trying to avoid a Biggest Loser situation – building healthy habits and self-esteem is just as important as slimming down.
"I was the one kid who was always invisible," Ekis told the Indy Star.
"Now that everyone's started helping me, I feel a whole lot better."
Witchy is giving her views as usual :
Who in their right mind would be stupid enough to bully anyone let alone someone who stands 6'4" and weighs 510 pounds? !!Good luck to you Eric!! You have a lot of people looking out for you
These words are for Eric. Believe in yourself. Know that you are as good as anybody else. Remember that you have your whole life ahead of you for wonderful things to happen. I am so sorry for the pain and sadness that you have experienced at such a young age. It has and will continue to get better. Three very big words to remember - "Believe in yourself". Good job, Eric!
Damn, that brought tears to my eyes. THIS is how all schools should be. This kid will take this sort of empowerment with him wherever he goes for the rest of his life. This teacher and all the kids helping out should be really proud of themselves for choosing to better themselves by helping this child feel better.
Great job Jonny. Very good article. I think we should make you one of our reporters.
ReplyDeleteIf you find any other interesting articles please show them to Mama. We appreciate it very much.
Luv Aunt Jeannie
Aunt Jeannie , we find articles about kids bullying and kids doing good deeds . I will show them to mama .
ReplyDeleteMama said a kids point of view on articles were very important I will look on daddy computer , he do not mind . daddy taught me how to set up his conference video calls for him . daddy say we need to learn all this .
Thank you aunt Jeannie and we love you very much , lots of hugs and kisses coming your way .
Dear Jonny,
ReplyDeleteMama is right, a kid's point of view is very important to us. Keep up the great work.
Lots of luv back at you my friend.
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Aunt Jeannie