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Wednesday, February 16, 2011

Why Women Lose Interest In Sex


Men often complain that their wives or girlfriends lose interest in sex , but do they really know why this occurs ?  Obviously , there can be multiple factors  , but not a single one of them means she's lost interest in you . It is entirely possible for a woman to lose interest in sex and still find her husband or boyfriend attractive  ; there are simply extenuating circumstances  that reduce the sex drive and curb libido.

Six top reasons  :
1) Body image :
When a woman doesn't feel attractive , it can be difficult for her to maintain interest in sex . She's thinkin g about  the way her husband or boyfriend  perceives her body and that she has trouble getting aroused . Men have a hard time understanding this because they don't normally translate their  body image into their sex life , but this is just one way in which men are patently different from women.
Fear of  Intimacy  :
Unlike men , women have a tendency to equate sexual intimacy with emotional intimacy , which can be one reason why they lose interest in sex .  If a woman fears getting close to a man emotionally, she isn't going to want to be intimate with him sexually . This doesn't necessarily mean that there's  anything wrong with her partner ; it simply means that both people need to work on building trust.
Lack of Sleep :
Fatique can wear down all of  the senses , which might be why women lose interest in sex . If all you can think about is catching a few  Z's , sex is low on the priority list . If  your wife or girlfriend  hasn't been getting enough sleep --  or is experiencing low-quality sleep -- she may lose her desire to have sex . Try taking a nap together  or watching televison in bed  until you fall asleep rather than pushing the sex issue.
Increase in Stress :
This is something that your wife or girlfriend my experience from time-to-time  . When women (and even men) experience high levels of stress  at work or at home , sex becomes a non-issue . This is because the mind is preoccupied with other matters and doesn't have the ability to become interested in sex. If your wife or girlfriend are experiencing high levels of stress , try doing what you can to allieviate it .
Relationship Disagreements :
Some men can have a fight with their wives or girlfriends  and then jump into bed  five minutes later  with no thought to the subject of that disagreement . Most women are different ; when they are experiencing discord in relationships , many women lose interest in sex . Rather than trying to push for physcial intimacy , resolve the issue about which you are fighting  and then head for the bedroom .
Feeling of Inadequacy
Men often think that they are the only ones who experience feelings of inadequacy in bed , but women go through the same emotions . If your wife or girlfriend  feels as though  she can't please you when you're intimate , she might lose interest in sex . Make sure that you tell her what she's doing right  and encourage her to be adventurous . Don't let her go on thinking that you're dissatisfied  with your sex life.

All  of these are emotional reasons why your wife or girlfriend  might lose interest in sex, this article  doesn't really touch the physical side . Breast-feeding  has been known to decrease libido as have low levels of  testosterone and high levels of   SHBG ( sex  horomone binding globulin) . If you think that the reasons might be physical , talk to your  primary care physician about your options .

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