Do they think they spend too much time on
their devices? Definitely not.
Many kids these days live in the digital world
as much as they live in the real one. Whether they are chatting to their friends on Xbox Live or FaceTime or
viewing their profiles on Instagram, these days it seems that there is always a
virtual guest in the house.
Their expectations of life are fundamentally different to ours at their ages
-. They were among the first generation to swipe a dumb screen and
wonder why nothing happened; the first to say when a toy was broken: "Don't
worry, we can just download a new one"; and the first to be aware that the real
world runs seamlessly into the digital one.
These digital natives understand the etiquette of the digital world - how to
text, how to email, how to get wi-fi and how to watch whatever they want,
whenever they want. And homework is a whole lot easier now that they have the
virtual font of all knowledge at the their fingertips - Google.
As the author of the book Growing Up Digital, Don Tapscott has spent a lot of
time looking at how the generation born in the age of computing will differ from
those who came before.
"Generation M [mobile] are growing up bathed in bits," he says. "Their brains
are actually different."
For him, the way the brain is wired is dictated by how you spend your
time.
"My generation grew up watching TV - we were passive recipients. Today
children come home and turn on their mobile devices, they are listening to MP3s,
chatting to their friends, playing video games - managing all these things at
the same time."
All the data our children are creating and uploading, coupled with their
casual ability to bring their friends into the house via a tablet screen, makes
parents question whether they are growing up in a world where privacy just won't
mean anything.
At a time when our lives are recorded and analyzed by countless services,
organizations and the state, educating young people about the importance of
privacy and considering what information they share should be high on the
agenda.
Our children are creating a very large digital
footprint, but will they have more control over data than us?
We are seeing the first cases of people being forced to hand over social
media passwords before they are offered employment, cyberbullying has become a
clear issue, and stories about commercial companies and the government snooping
on our communications are now commonplace. It is imperative that we teach our children about how our communications are
now accessed and the ramifications that that may bring.
Mr Tapscott is not convinced.
"The idea that privacy is dead is deeply unfounded but the way we protect
privacy is going through a fundamental change," he says. "Kids are quite aware of the whole privacy question and intuitively
understand idea of using data responsibly."
That resonates with me - I can barely take a picture these days without one
of my children or grandchildren asking suspiciously: "Are you going to post it on Facebook?"
"Actually they are scrutinizers," said Mr Tapscott. "When I was young if I
saw a picture, it was just a photo, these days kids look at pictures and ask
whether it has been photoshopped."
As for data privacy, there is evidence that companies are beginning to
understand that individuals want to wrest back control of what could be their
greatest asset, their data. Companies are now developing apps and dashboards
that allow people to store all the information that they share online in one
place. Some think eventually we will even sell our data as a commodity to
advertisers. Meanwhile, the amount of control individuals have over the information that
exists online about them is being challenged.
Last month a European court pushed through so-called right-to-be-forgotten
legislation, ordering Google to remove links to sites with information about an
individual's financial history that was deemed out-of-date. Such rules may be welcomed by our children as they seek to wipe out the
profiles they created when they were teenagers to replace them with a more
sober, grown-up digital CV.
And there could be a lot of data to wipe - according to the Pew Internet
Centre, up to half of US children have a mobile phone by the time they are six
and increasingly parents are creating email accounts and social media profiles
for their new-born babies.
Anecdotal evidence suggests many parents these days are more likely to buy
their toddler a tablet than a cuddly toy.
Having such an early interaction with technology has led to a glut of studies
questioning whether our children spend too much time immersed in the addictive
digital world and too little time crossing roads, playing in mud and chasing
butterflies.
Can we get the balance right between life online and
life outdoors?
A lot of it comes down to sensible parenting, thinks Mr Tapscott.
"Parents need to make choices. Say no devices at dinner, in restaurants. Draw
up a social contract about when technology can be used," he says.
He is not a fan of the trend towards net filters, where ISPs around the
world, increasingly offer parents the
option to block out pornography.
"The best way to deal with pornography is not to prevent access but talk to
our kids about it," he insists.
The really important question for the optimists such as Mr Tapscott is how
schools deal with our tech-savvy youngsters.
"For the first time in history, children are an authority on something really
important - how the digital world is changing our institutions."
He is not convinced schools have understood the enormity of that change:
"Children don't learn the way we learnt, but the classroom hasn't changed
since the industrial revolution."
While there are plenty of schools doing innovative stuff with technology,
there is also evidence that many teachers remain scared of its potential. Just this month, a group of teachers called for government guidelines on the amount of time children should spend on
net-connected devices. Director Mark Langhammer said: "We're hearing reports of very young children
who are arriving into school quite unable to concentrate or socialize properly
because they're spending so much time on digital games or social media."
But far from restricting access, Mr Tapscott thinks we need to stop seeing
online as bad and offline as good.
"There is a lot of cynicism about net addiction, losing social skills, being
an army of narcissists only interested in Facebook and selfies. I found that
none of that is true".
"They are the smartest generation ever."
How do you feel about this generation of techno-kids? Do you feel that spending hours a day in the digital world is good, but only within certain parameters? Do you think we should let our kids have unlimited access because it may be their way of life in the future. Maybe you just hate the whole subject....dang new-fangled gadgets. Who needs 'em? Dagnabbit!